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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor20 Sept 2023, 8:00 pm AEST

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well that will be alot cooler for you @outlander a walk sounds nice

extra hours will hopefully mean more money which is always a good thing hon. Sounds like you are getting some recognition which is good too.

no i don't think i could watch that show. think i will stick to the bbt.

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Sept 2023, 8:21 pm AEST

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i like watching modern family too @Snowie and lots of baking challange type shows

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SnowieSenior Contributor20 Sept 2023, 8:24 pm AEST

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those shows sound good @outlander

thanks again for talking to me

i think i better go, im sorry

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Sept 2023, 8:26 pm AEST

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please stay safe @Snowie

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Sept 2023, 8:37 pm AEST

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im abit dissapointed and upset.

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Captain24Senior Contributor20 Sept 2023, 9:05 pm AEST

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What’s happened @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Sept 2023, 9:37 pm AEST

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It doesn’t matter. Nothing I do matters. I’m just going to go to bed. It’s better then giving into urges now

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tymeModerator20 Sept 2023, 9:41 pm AEST

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Hope you are okay @outlander . You do matter. You matter to all of us. We're here if you need a chat.

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Sept 2023, 9:46 pm AEST

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It won’t make any difference @tyme it doesn’t matter what I do it won’t ever be good enough for some. Makes me question why I do anything for anyone. My urges are to strong I don’t even want to move at this point they have me frozen. Bed is probably the best option anyway

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tymeModerator20 Sept 2023, 9:59 pm AEST

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Please take care @outlander . If you're free, we can chat tomorrow? @outlander

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