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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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i'm glad you like your new workplace @outlander and get along with your boss

its good something is going well for you

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i think i might have got the other job i had interviewed for as well @Snowie its not confirmed yet though

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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oh that would be so exciting for you if you have got it @outlander fingers and toes crossed!!

what are u up to tonight?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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well they called me today to say im a really good candidate for the job and that they would see if my ongoing avalaibilties would work out for the company @Snowie so hopefully

im abit tired tonight but not like i usually am more that im actually feeling ok and useful for the first time in a long time.
im watching netflix and just ordered dinner. its so hot here and no southerly breeze till around 11pm tonight. it got to 36 degrees here today

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Well I really hope you get it after that phone call @outlander

Glad you are feeling less tired hon. Hopefully that continues for you.

What are you watching on netflix? It was about 19 here today and raining at the moment. No sun for us.

Must be still hot there for you

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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its still 27 here atm @Snowie

i was watching Mom but ive just finished the series so im watching the latest episodes of the handmaids tale

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@tyme i read you went camping with the kids! how did that go!?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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That is still warm @outlander

Meant to be only 15 here tomorrow. Have to get my winter clothes out again!

I've watched Mom before, it is a funny show. I've never watched the handmaids tale. What is it about?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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hi @tyme

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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its only 20 here tomorrow thankfully. i can go for a walk if i have the energy!
@Snowie ill probably go anyway since i dont have much time these days to go walking. my hours are increasing abit more with this new workplace cause theres alot that needs to be sorted and an audit coming up in a couple of months so i really need to get some stuff sorted out int he admin department, so she reached out last night abit stressed asking if i can do a couple of extra hours for her wherever i can.

the handmaids tale would probably be quite triggering for you. it does have a fair bit of abuse in it and violence and death. it has a really good story line though about redemption, and strength within and the power of women working together
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