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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 Sept 2023, 6:32 pm AEST

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It’s ok it’s double time today! @Captain24 it sort of makes it worth it sometimes.
The time is starting to drag on abit though. I have 4 hours to go

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Captain24Senior Contributor03 Sept 2023, 7:37 pm AEST

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Double time does make all the difference! @outlander

I hope the next 4 hrs goes quick for you

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 Sept 2023, 7:55 pm AEST

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its travelling ok at the moment @Captain24 the routine was stuffed up here abit because of frequent visitors for fathers day but its sorted now and everything is done for the next shift except one still needs a shower but he can do that himself.

just working on my assignments. i only have 3 left to do and then im completed this course. 2 of them are role plays though so its a pain. one if booked in but not till october! hopefully if i can get this assignment im working on done within the next couple of days i can book the other one in before i head away for medical treatment. would be nice to come back to no studies to do

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 Sept 2023, 11:08 pm AEST

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Is anyone still around?

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Eve7Senior Contributor04 Sept 2023, 9:27 am AEST

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Sorry I missed this @outlander

Hoping you’re on 💜💜

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SnowieSenior Contributor04 Sept 2023, 9:54 am AEST

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Sorry I missed you last night hon @outlander

Wishing you a good day today

Sending lots of love 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Sept 2023, 2:35 pm AEST

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its ok @Eve7 @Snowie i made it through the night unfortunatley

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Sept 2023, 2:54 pm AEST

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getting more and more frustrated and annoyed. cant wait till a new life can be started

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JynxModerator04 Sept 2023, 3:26 pm AEST

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Aww @outlander you have so much on your plate right now. Can imagine it feels like a whole world away for the positive changes that are coming. How are you going with your assignments today?

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SnowieSenior Contributor04 Sept 2023, 4:00 pm AEST

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@outlander 💕

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