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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Captain24Senior Contributor02 Sept 2023, 7:06 pm AEST

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Hey @outlander.

Whats happening

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RiverSealModerator02 Sept 2023, 7:13 pm AEST

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Hey @outlander

I'm here tonight and around if you need anything. Nice to see you here again! 😁

Take care

RiverSeal

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Shaz51Senior Contributor02 Sept 2023, 7:17 pm AEST

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Here for you my sister @outlander

Hello 👋 @RiverSeal , @Captain24 , @creative_writer , @Snowie

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Shaz51Senior Contributor02 Sept 2023, 7:18 pm AEST

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Soo good to see you my @RiverSeal 😁

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Sept 2023, 7:21 pm AEST

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this stupid shift is just dragging on and on and on. still have 3 hours to go. i just want to hurry up and get through the stupid shift here.
im already in enough pain to be here but i have to because i need the $

im getting more and more frustrated at my circumstances and having to take pop with me everywhere all the damn time. i hate that my life revolves around everyone else

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RiverSealModerator02 Sept 2023, 7:21 pm AEST

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Hello @Shaz51 lovely to see you here too! Take care RiverSeal

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Captain24Senior Contributor02 Sept 2023, 7:24 pm AEST

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I don’t want to sound harsh @outlander. But what would happen if you just said to your family that you can’t do it anymore?

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Sept 2023, 7:25 pm AEST

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they know i wont just walk away @Captain24 its not in my nature plus i dont have anywhere else to go either its not my house or anything.

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Captain24Senior Contributor02 Sept 2023, 7:30 pm AEST

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I feel for you so much.

Are you able to get him into respite for a break? @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Sept 2023, 7:34 pm AEST

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Earliest is when I’m away in November and even then it was very hard to get @Captain24

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