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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Unknown userMember

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That's the funny thing about triggers really they can be the smallest thing, sometimes not even related to what's going on.

This is how I am coping with my crappy day. Not at all healthy and as soon as the internet is working Marvel movies all afternoon @outlander @NatureLover

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Oh gosh, just read your long post, you are really going through it at the moment, am so sorry to hear.

I don't even know what to say. I hope you can get a loan...but it's causing you panic attacks (no wonder). It sounds like a very painful condition and it's very worrying you can't eat and drink.

I really hope you can get some replacement supports, too @outlander .

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Unknown userMember

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Hey sweetie are you still here with @NatureLover amd myself?

@outlander

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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It seems like an MRI would be sensible, but you say you also need a gastroscopy...it all sounds very expensive @outlander . No wonder it would be contributing to your anxiety.

I'm really sorry @Former-Member , I didn't even ask how you're doing today...is it a tough day? (I think you are pretty amazing.)

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Zoe7Senior Contributor

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Hey @outlander Going to sit here with you too Hon

@NatureLover @Former-Member 😁👍

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Unknown userMember

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@NatureLover , one of things I admire most about @outlander is her ability to have all that you just read going on in her life but be such a force of compassion, of support here. She is just a gem.

I am just recovering from a pretty rough week. Being up for 36hrs was the final straw for my body and is now demanding rest. I haven't asked how you are doing either my friend

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Oh thank you, @Zoe7 🙂

I hope @outlander is OK...

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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doesn't look like a bad way to spend the day! @Former-Member

Thanks @Zoe7


thanks @NatureLover I have a phone meeting with the bank in about an hour. have some questions and will start the process with them see how it goes. am waiting on some emails to come back from other gastroenterologists to see if they are any cheaper-fingers crossed

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@Former-Member I have been reading threads and I have seen people saying how amazing @outlander is in supporting others while going through bad stuff herself. I think you also fall into that category.

I'm sorry you've had a terrible week @Former-Member . I know I couldn't cope with being up for 36 hours. Do you need to sleep now?

And I am fine at the moment, thankfully.

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Unknown userMember

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@outlander , good luck with the bank sweetness. I will sit with you quietly for a bit. I am always thinking of you my beautiful friend

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