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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor16 May 2020, 2:20 pm AEST

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@outlander wrote:
I have a phone meeting with the bank in about an hour. have some questions and will start the process with them see how it goes. am waiting on some emails to come back from other gastroenterologists to see if they are any cheaper-fingers crossed

Well done on doing all this instead of falling in a heap, which I would have done. I guess the gastroenterologist won't wait as you need answers.

Good luck with the phone interview in an hour...I will be crossing my fingers for you. @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 May 2020, 2:21 pm AEST

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its nothing special, just helping out. besides we are all amazing here, everyone here is going through something and yet they offer to help others. your both doing the same thing now @NatureLover @dizzizzy

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Lee82Senior Contributor16 May 2020, 2:34 pm AEST

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Hey @outlander I have just caught up on what has been happening for you these past couple days. Honey there is a lot going on for you right now and I am so so sorry you are going through all of this. You have been doing such a great job keeping it together and catering to your pops needs.
it's just like that saying if it doesn't rain it pours.
firstly I want to say just how amazing you are and strong to have been going through all of this but managed to still be there to support me last night babe. I can't tell you how amazing that is. Goes to show you that you are a beautiful caring and strong person.
I don't know how much help I can be but I am here to sit with you and support you in your time of need. I am thinking of you @outlander and I am sending you a gentle hug my friend.
please try and be kind to yourself and don't stop talking. I know how dark things can get and I know that being here on the forum helps a whole lot.
here for you babe

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor16 May 2020, 2:45 pm AEST

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Am still here sitting with you @outlander . Hoping you are OK and not too anxious about the phone interview soon.

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Unknown userMember16 May 2020, 3:05 pm AEST

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🦕 @outlander 🌻

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Lee82Senior Contributor16 May 2020, 3:26 pm AEST

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@outlander Sitting with you.
🌻❤️🌻

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor16 May 2020, 3:37 pm AEST

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Still here @outlander for if and when you might come back after your phone appointment. No pressure though...hoping that you might find some relief after the appointment's over.

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SnowieSenior Contributor16 May 2020, 4:12 pm AEST

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@outlander 💖💕❤💌

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor16 May 2020, 4:54 pm AEST

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I have to go out now but will be back in about half an hour. I hope you are OK @outlander .

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor16 May 2020, 5:30 pm AEST

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I'm back for about an hour or so, able to listen if you want @outlander .

Really hope you haven't had any more panic attacks today...am worried.

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