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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Thanks @Snowie
Just have to work with what we have I guess

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It is hard sometimes to work with what we have got @outlander I can understand that, just in a different way.

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Hey @outlander @Snowie 🙂

How's things?

@Snowie , I feel like I haven't seen you around in a while. Hope you are okay.

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things are crappy @tyme

Hope your day is going ok

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Awwww. I'm sorry to hear that @Snowie .

Any idea how things can change?

My day was okay. I'm warming up in front of the fireplace at the moment.

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Doesn't matter @tyme

Things just are what they are. I've got ideas, just not good ones.

I'll leave it as that. It is not my thread to complain.

I'm glad your day has been good. It is cold here too.

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Your always welcome to talk here @Snowie I don’t own the thread and besides I like talking to you

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I got the kids a doctors kit, a painting easel, eggs chairs and also some lap desks. @Snowie

They are so spoilt. Aunties always spoil kids.

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Thanks @outlander I like talking to you too 💗

@tyme they certainly do sound spoilt by their Auntie!!

I am glad you have a good relationship with them and can be a presence in their lives.

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Due to my MH circumstances, I didn't see them for many years.

I wasn't around when the second was born and was so upset that I had nothing to do with him. I feel I have to make up for it.

But yes, if it was my own kids, I'd never get them any of what I get these kids now. @Snowie

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