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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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tymeModerator05 Aug 2023, 7:31 pm AEST

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Which state are you in now that you have to go to another for treatment? @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor05 Aug 2023, 7:39 pm AEST

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i am in NSW but need to travel south by around 4 hours into another state @tyme

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tymeModerator05 Aug 2023, 7:49 pm AEST

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I was from NSW. I moved states to get treatment... so i'm hearing you @outlander .

Actually, it was a good change for me.

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outlanderSenior Contributor05 Aug 2023, 7:51 pm AEST

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i like the state im travelling to. i go every 6 months really and ive been before. the clinic was nice and the staff were caring. it was a nice experience despite needing to go for medical treatment @tyme its just expensive when i dont have supports so i need to pay for support workers to basically take me stay with me and pick me back up for the week up to 10 days sort of thing so its expensive but also worth it when it comes to my health

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tymeModerator05 Aug 2023, 7:57 pm AEST

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True @outlander . If it means quality of life, it's worth it.

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outlanderSenior Contributor05 Aug 2023, 7:58 pm AEST

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yes it does @tyme

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outlanderSenior Contributor05 Aug 2023, 9:09 pm AEST

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i dont know what to do about the cost @tyme its expensive to get help without ndis or aged care support and needing to pay private 😞 it really sucks not having support

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 Aug 2023, 3:26 am AEST

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Another night filled with anxiety. Can’t sleep just toss and turn. Pain making it harder too.

I just want to be normal. I want to stop being the person with so many problems.

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 Aug 2023, 3:28 am AEST

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I can’t stop worrying. Can’t stop thinking.

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Captain24Senior Contributor06 Aug 2023, 6:50 am AEST

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I hope you finally got some sleep @outlander. How’s your head today? Do you work today?

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