not coping

Hugs @Snowie , @outlander ❤️❤️

Hi @outlander

I know it's tough looking at the whole journey - one step at a time seems a good strategy - it works for me.

Some mornings I think of the chores I have to do before my shoulder decided to cooperate - brush my hair, dressing gown, brekkie, teeth, whatever - it seems simple but yes - chronic pain does make simple things a challenge.

And you have a heap of things to deal with in order to start a life on your own - something you are entitled to, want, need, deserve, have earned - and your family is not in the habit of helping you out - I am sure it's really convenient for them to have to living where you are and pitching it to help whenever someone wants something from someone they feel is the black sheep.

And you are not the black sheep - whatever people say and whatever they think and whatever you feel - you are a fine young woman I would love to have in my circle - I am proud to know you in this forum.

The big picture is just that - big - still - it's made up of small bits - of Lego - like your picture.

It might take a long time - you have a long list - I have every confidence that you will do this in time.

All the best

Owlunar

Wishing you a good day today @outlander

Still here with you sis 💜💜

How did the trip go @outlander . Proud of you for doing it alone. I struggle with that too. Always like my husband to drive me. Then in May I took my daughter to Melbourne and did the trip with me driving there and back (she doesn't drive so had no choice). It was a fear I'd had so I felt proud after I got back home. I did manage to reverse into a pole which I was not so proud of lol.

x

Thinking of you lots my @outlander 💗

Hello @hanami , @Snowie , @Owlunar , @Captain24

Hey @outlander. I hope today is going ok for you

Hope you are ok @outlander Hugs

Sending hugs @outlander