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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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tymeModerator23 July 2023, 9:23 pm AEST

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That sounds tough @outlander . I hear why you are looking elsewhere.

I fully support you in keeping your eyes and ears out for new opportunities.

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 July 2023, 9:27 pm AEST

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Thanks @tyme

I think I’ll head to bed. It’s been a long day so bed might be the best option

Thanks for the chat

Goodnight @Bow @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 July 2023, 10:58 am AEST

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@outlander hoping you got some sleep last night and today is a little better.

Take care hon 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2023, 1:06 pm AEST

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@Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 July 2023, 9:29 am AEST

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@outlander wishing you a good day today hon

Take care 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 July 2023, 9:57 am AEST

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I’ve got my second therapy session today @Snowie I almost forgot my homework so I had to do that this morning! Will see her in the next 10 minutes. It’s done outdoors so I’m just sitting in the allocated spot taking in the views and nice weather.

Then I have meetings for pops assessments today. So god only knows what the arvo and night will bring since he doesn’t handle assessments very well. This one’s the big one so I can start looking into nursing homes.

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hanamiSenior Contributor25 July 2023, 10:01 am AEST

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Sounds like a big day @outlander . I hope it goes well and hope your Pop is ok.

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 July 2023, 10:15 am AEST

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It is a big and important day for you then @outlander

I really hope everything goes ok for your pops assessment.

Hoping too that your therapy session goes well.

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 July 2023, 11:40 am AEST

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hey @hanami long time no speak! how are you?

@Snowie how are you today?

my therapy session went pretty good. i told her about my self harming and she gave me abit of homework to do with that as i seem to be dissociating alot when its happening.

next up in the meeting today after lunch. hopefully it goes ok.

what are you guys up to today?

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hanamiSenior Contributor25 July 2023, 11:45 am AEST

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I'm good @outlander. Glad to hear your appt this morning went well. It's such a nice day here so I might eat my lunch outside soon. My day off tomorrow and my daughter and I plan to see Barbie. Keen to go the cinema as I haven't been for about three years!

Good luck with your Pop.

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