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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh wow @hanami i havent realy heard much about the new barbie movie but it seems popular at the moment.
going to the cinema sounds good!
can i ask how old your daughter is?

its really nice here too. my therapy sessions are walk or sit outside as i dont cope in rooms so it was really nice to be outside in the warm sun

oh that reminds me @Jynx how was the barbie movie on the weekend? did you go or to sick?

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hanamiSenior Contributor

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I love the idea of being outside for therapy @outlander

My daughter is 19. She's my youngest and the only one still at home. Also the one who I have the most in common with. We both love art, crafts and watching the same shows. I'm not letting her leave home lol.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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lol @hanami its so good you have a good bond with her. youll have to let me know how the movies go!

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Glad your therapy session went well @outlander and that you could open up to them.

Good luck with your pops appointment.

Struggling today. Took the kids to school and went back to bed. Good spot to be.

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hanamiSenior Contributor

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Will do @outlander !

Sorry to hear you're not feeling great today. Take care xxx

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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ive had migraines for the last couple of weeks @hanami the increase in the meds that control them seems to be starting to work though.


im sorry todays a rough day @Snowie being in bed sounds like a good place to be if its helping
is the dog keeping youcompany

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander dog is laying next to me.

Going to try and make a cuppa

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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a cuppa sounds like a good idea @Snowie ill come and join you

i jsut got notices from my aged care to has given me the court date that i need to attend in a couple of months to hopefully become pops official guardian. need to get more paperwork together before then but ill start with the assessment today and then have a look.

i have invasive testing that im not looking forward to tomorrow so im also stressed about that.

im getting so overwhelmed with everything im trying to break it down

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hanamiSenior Contributor

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That's not good @outlander but glad the meds are starting to work.

I hope your tests go well tomorrow. I hate medical tests. Always make me anxious.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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No doubt there is a lot of paper work you have to get ready @outlander

I do hope your testing goes ok tomorrow. I'm sure it is stressful for you.

Breaking things down is a good idea. Hopefully things don't feel as big as they are.

I don't want to leave my bedroom. I still have a week before my psych is back.

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