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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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tymeModerator

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Hearing you @outlander . I was talking to someone only a few weeks ago. Same thing. Don't want father in a residential care, yet no one is willing to put their hand up to do the work. Ultimately, they put him in residential because it just wasn't safe for him to be anywhere else.

Feel free to email through, and I'll most likely respond tomorrow. Hope that's okay.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Yes it a hard thing for family to accept @tyme but sometimes there aren’t other options and is the safest thing for everyone as well.

I’ll send through an email either tonight or tomorrow. I think I need some tech free self care time tonight after work and forum time.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@tyme i have emailed you

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I hate when things just hit all of a sudden 😮‍💨 the last few days were going well and I’m heading into a slump… sigh….

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sorry to hear that things are going into a bit of a slump @outlander I think it is normal for us to second guess ourselves, to think maybe we made the wrong decisions. Especially when we have other people questioning our decisions, such as you probably do.

Please just know that whatever you decide that we will be around for you. You have shown so much strength and maturity by putting yourself first. Probably the first time you have ever done this.

You deserve to do what you want to do, you deserve to be happy.

Keep striding hon, we are here with you 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im feeling a little nervous. tomorrow i have an extended session with a new psychologist. she likes to make her first sessions an hour and a half to get to know clients better and get more out of an hours introductory sessions. shes had some good reviews from people so i hope she will be a good match for me. i havent been to therapy for quite some time now so im abit nervous

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Jynx are you still around

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JynxModerator

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Hey @outlander nice to see you - I'm here for another 10 min or so. What's happening?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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just having a little bit of a tough night @Jynx no one is around though so i will probably just go to bed i guess
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