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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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JynxModerator10 July 2023, 9:56 pm AEST

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I'm sorry to hear it @outlander , wish I could provide you with some comfort of some sort. Another @moderator will be around soon, if you wanted to chat to someone. I hope you get some rest ad that tomorrow is better for you 💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor10 July 2023, 10:01 pm AEST

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thanks @Jynx if another mod is on that would be nice.

i havent seen you in a while though so its still nice to say hello even if it is brief

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KuuSenior Contributor10 July 2023, 10:06 pm AEST

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Hi @outlander 🙂

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outlanderSenior Contributor10 July 2023, 10:10 pm AEST

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hello @Kuu
i dont think weve met but thank you for coming to say hi

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JynxModerator11 July 2023, 3:58 pm AEST

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How are you going today @outlander ? 😊

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 July 2023, 7:48 pm AEST

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Hey @Jynx it’s been a big day here. Still at work but it’s quiet atm. I’m really tired and just want to head home but I still have a few hours yet.
I had an hour and a half psychology session but it seems to have gone well

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JynxModerator11 July 2023, 8:20 pm AEST

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Oof, hope your remaining work day passes quickly @outlander! Last hours are always the hardest.

Glad to hear you had a good, long sesh with your psych! Have you got any plans to help you wind down this evening? Can be rough going from therapy to work hey!

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 July 2023, 8:40 pm AEST

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I’ll be sleeping when I get home I think @Jynx
I have night shift tomorrow but I have a couple of things on and I won’t be able to sleep on Thursday so I need to try and get a good couple of hours in overnight and for as long as possible tomorrow

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 July 2023, 8:41 pm AEST

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2 hours of work to go now @Jynx 10 hours Oof hard when your already tired before you get to work.
I also had a big walk today between my walk and and therapy and going for a walk after that

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 July 2023, 9:09 pm AEST

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How are you @Jynx it’s been a while since I’ve spoken to you

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