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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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On our way home now @outlander and traffic is much better now.

We went to one of those “all you can eat” places that are a promotion for gluttony but we had a good time. I won’t need to eat tomorrow.

🩵

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thats good im glad you had a good time @Eve7
i havent been to a buffet in so long! our favourite one here closed down about 2 years ago and havent found a replacement place

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I spoke too soon @outlander as the traffic is now at a standstill with sirens going all around us. I suppose we’ll know what’s happened soon.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thats not good @Eve7 hope all is well and that you get home safeley soon

do you have anything planned for tomorrow?

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I have a visit from the mh nurse tomorrow and I need to pick up a script from pdoc @outlander

Traffic is moving again after roadworks and an accident. Back to four lanes open so should be home soon.

What are you doing tomorrow?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im resting tomorrow and hopefully having a good sleep in. im working 12 hours active overnight care at work tomorrow night and then appointments all day friday so no sleep after night shift so will need to get a decent sleep in tomorrow @Eve7 and ill need to do the horses as well

my wounds are still causing grief tonight though so i cant see much sleep on the cards, to uncomfortable and sore. im looking forward to the surgical wounds healing and being able to sleep abit easier

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander I hope the pain eases soon hon and that you can get some good sleep.

Please be careful at work, don't overdo it.

Sending lots of love 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie its a little better today. still sore and abit hard to walk but abit more manageable at least. have a 12 hour night shift tonight but cant get back to sleep so will be a long night i think!

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I hope work goes ok for you @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie its my first time back in a week and a long shift as well so might be interesting. ill take my laptop to watch movies and continue doing a couple of online courses and my crochet as well. hopefully clients are well behaved tonight since i have a long day friday as well and wont be sleeping after the shift
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