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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 June 2023, 9:45 pm AEST

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hello @Appleblossom care for a cuppa?

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor14 June 2023, 3:02 pm AEST

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Sorry bella @outlander was on and offline and a bit all over the place, so not still enough to hold a cuppa, lol, but I appreciate the offer.

Gentle Hugs

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 June 2023, 3:38 pm AEST

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thats ok @Appleblossom i can be abit sporadic sometimes too.

ive just returned home from appointments. so much travelling today 2 hours up and 2 hours back home

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 June 2023, 3:52 pm AEST

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hey @Eve7

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Eve7Senior Contributor14 June 2023, 3:57 pm AEST

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Time to relax @outlander ☕️

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 June 2023, 4:06 pm AEST

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yes definently @Eve7
lots of travelling and still really sore. the surgeon has said im ok to go back to work as long as im careful for a couple more days and the wounds are healing well with the st++ches removed today except all the disolvable ones.

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Eve7Senior Contributor14 June 2023, 4:41 pm AEST

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That’s good news @outlander . I hope you can be really careful back at work.

I’m currently travelling to the city for a birthday party. S1 is driving so I’m catching up on all my social pages.

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 June 2023, 4:47 pm AEST

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im still going to use dressings to avoid them getting infected since i work around alot of bodily fluids @Eve7 so ill be careful for the next week or so till they heal abit more and not so fresh

im having a cuppa, watching The Nanny and doing some crochet. im so close to finishing my blanket now. im down to the last ball and then im done

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Eve7Senior Contributor14 June 2023, 4:58 pm AEST

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Well done on finishing your crochet project @outlander

We have hit traffic big time. We should be arriving soon but the gps is saying 54 minutes away.

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 June 2023, 5:39 pm AEST

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its always crazy traffic where i am around 5pm till around 7 cause thats when everyone around here usually leaves work and builds up traffic within the cities.

hope you arrive soon and have a good night @Eve7

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