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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@outlander hi hunny i am still here but haunt the Everything music site. good to see you. 🙂

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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good to see you @Shaz51 @Bunniekins

yes ive needed a couple of days off @Snowie its always for medical stuff though i dont just go on holidays which would be nice. maybe ill plan a nice holiday next year when ive got my health sorted out

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Planning a holiday sounds like a great idea @outlander It is always something we can look forward too.

Hoping today is a good day. Sending lots of love hon 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie trying to do some extra cash in hand work atm to pay for this surgery and also a place to stay after it for a couple of days as well. ive paid 2 things off but still have around $1000 left to save

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Wow that is still a lot to save @outlander I hope you are able to get the money.

Wishing you a good day today 💌💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie ive managed to save up for 2 things so far just have a couple of expenses left. i forget how expensive it is to be away from home for a surgery.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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It is expensive @outlander

Sometimes I think why do I bother paying for private health cover, I am still out of pocket so much.

Any plans for tomorrow?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeah @Snowie i have private health insurance too but still so much gap fee for some things

im just cleaning tomorrow and have a couple of meetings as well

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Yes the gap fee is huge with some things @outlander

I hope your meetings go ok tomorrow hon.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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its just a couple of interviews for the company @Snowie i wasnt suppose to be working tomorrow but its a couple of extra $ in the pocket for the upcoming surgery
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