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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor10 May 2023, 9:35 am AEST

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@outlander just checking in on you today, hoping things are a little better.

Take care hon 💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor10 May 2023, 7:49 pm AEST

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i have been flat out all day @Snowie trying to organise clients birthdays and stuff
have a day off sort of tomorrow but doing school runs and also giving a riding lesson tomorrow arvo otherwise i can just chill out

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Eve7Senior Contributor10 May 2023, 8:22 pm AEST

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Hello @outlander

💜💜💜

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SnowieSenior Contributor11 May 2023, 8:25 am AEST

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@outlander hoping you can get some time to yourself today. You certainly are one busy bee.

Will be around most of the day if you need a chat.

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outlanderSenior Contributor18 May 2023, 2:34 pm AEST

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hello @Eve7 how are you?

thanks @Snowie

ive just got news that im going to need another surgery. its scheduled for about 3 weeks time and its already going so fast. ive had to pick up a couple of of extra shifts at work because ive only got half of what i need saved to pay for it *that was actually jsut savings) i only found out about the surgery 2 days ago so ive ben trying to get my head around it and also organise extra supports for pop while im away etc. so much to organise.

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outlanderSenior Contributor18 May 2023, 2:35 pm AEST

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hello also @Sans911 missing you
@Shaz51 @Appleblossom @Sophia1 @tyme @Bunniekins @NatureLover and all who may be passing through too

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SnowieSenior Contributor18 May 2023, 3:41 pm AEST

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That is big news @outlander

I hope everything is ok. It is shocking that we have to pay for some surgeries that are needed. I hope you get everything sorted out with your pop.

So good to see you on here however.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor18 May 2023, 5:17 pm AEST

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Ohh wow my sister @outlander

Sitting with you my darling xxxxx

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outlanderSenior Contributor18 May 2023, 5:27 pm AEST

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yes everything is relatively ok @Snowie they gave me the option to a month later but i need to be healed enough to go to a wedding so i need to get it done as early as possible. everything is so expensive. i have to also book a hotel as well because i cant deal with pop after a surgery. i tried that twice and it just made me to irritated so im not doing that again esp being that i will have st___es so itll be uncomfortable enough as it is.

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SnowieSenior Contributor18 May 2023, 5:52 pm AEST

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That is fair enough @outlander

Glad you are taking some time for yourself afterwards and you are staying in a motel. At least you can recover without worrying about your pop.

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