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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im starting to get really nervous about my upcoming surgery. its not long to go now and its both going quite fast and quite slowly.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I’m only working 2 days a week right now @outlander so I’ll be there with you when you go in for surgery.

💙💙💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Eve7 i still have 2 weeks to go but its come up quickly considering i only found out a week ago! have arranged heaps in that time at least and everything seems to be coming together.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander I'm sorry I couldn't respond yesterday.

No doubt you are getting nervous hon, I think that is a normal reaction.

I too can understand the time going quickly yet feeling like it is going too slow as well.

Please know that we are here for you before and after your op hon

Hoping your day today goes well. Sending lots of love sis 💌💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thats ok @Snowie

im at work this arfternoon. ive had the flu so i dont feel up for it but need the $ so iguess ill go. fairly easy today with only one client to care for so not much to do. gets so boring though but today i think i need boring. ive been so busy and sick that a day to work but not be busy will probably be good for me

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I hope work wasn't too busy for you hon @outlander

Sometimes those slow days are what we need.

Any plans for the weekend?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im still at work @Snowie
yeah im working all weekend and having pop around like a puppy all weekend but at least i get a sleep in tomorrow

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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A sleep in sounds good to me @outlander

Sometimes our body just needs that rest.

I hope the rest of your work goes well.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Sometimes it is good having boring @outlander , @Snowie xx

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi @Shaz51

How has your day been?

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