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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor09 May 2023, 8:34 pm AEST

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I hope you can get an appt. soon @outlander so you can start seeing someone regularly.

Just about to go pick up D from work.

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outlanderSenior Contributor09 May 2023, 8:41 pm AEST

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does D have her P plates yet? @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor09 May 2023, 8:59 pm AEST

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@outlander no not yet. She turns 18 in Sept, then she can go for her P's.

Have you got anything planned for tomorrow?

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outlanderSenior Contributor09 May 2023, 9:01 pm AEST

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does vic not have the option for the red p plates when you turn 17? in nsw we have 16 for Ls red p plates for a year when you turn 17 and then when you turn 18 you have the green ones for 2 years before going to a full license

im working tomorrow for pretty much most of the day

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SnowieSenior Contributor09 May 2023, 9:05 pm AEST

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No in VIC they can't get their Ps till they turn 18. They can still get their Ls at 16.

So still awhile to go.

I hope you can get some time for yourself tomorrow too hon @outlander you work so hard.

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outlanderSenior Contributor09 May 2023, 9:11 pm AEST

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so will she go onto red plates first when she turns 18 or how does vics licensing work?
@Snowie

im dreading work theres alot of triggering things atm and im not coping with it but i also need the $ so im trying to keep powering through

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SnowieSenior Contributor09 May 2023, 9:20 pm AEST

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@outlander She goes onto green Ps for a year then goes onto her red Ps after that. It's strange that each state has their own rules. You would think it would be the same in each state.

It must be hard for you at work knowing you need the money whilst at the same time it be triggering for you.

Lots of hugs hon ♥️

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outlanderSenior Contributor09 May 2023, 9:30 pm AEST

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oh its almost backwards to us @Snowie

it is so triggering there. but i cant do anything about it

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SnowieSenior Contributor09 May 2023, 9:38 pm AEST

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I'm sorry that is happening to you hon @outlander

Can you do something nice for yourself after work tomorrow?

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SnowieSenior Contributor09 May 2023, 9:46 pm AEST

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@outlander have taken my meds hon so will have to sign off. Will check in on you tomorrow ♥️

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