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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Nov 2022, 2:50 pm AEDT

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@Snowie

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Nov 2022, 7:19 pm AEDT

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would anyone be around to talk to?

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Unknown userMember15 Nov 2022, 7:43 pm AEDT

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heya @outlander, me and @amber22 are around ❤️ plus a few others. How ya going?

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Nov 2022, 7:44 pm AEDT

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hi @Former-Member

nice to see you.

have lots of anxiety atm

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Unknown userMember15 Nov 2022, 7:51 pm AEDT

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It's nice to see you too @outlander, it seems like a little while since we've crossed over! It's always lovely ❤️

What would be useful for now? Do you want to talk about it? or would some distraction be nice?

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Nov 2022, 7:54 pm AEDT

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im just really stressed about my upcoming tests this week and next. and trying to finish my studies but i dont think im going to make it
@Former-Member

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Eve7Senior Contributor15 Nov 2022, 8:19 pm AEDT

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Hello @outlander

💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Nov 2022, 8:26 pm AEDT

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hello @Eve7 nice to see you

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Unknown userMember15 Nov 2022, 8:28 pm AEDT

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@outlander It seems like there is an immediate worry about your tests, but also a bigger worry about your study overall. Is that right? Is there something that's happened?

What is is like for you when you're not stressed about uni? Is there anything that can get you closer to that? Being so worried really shows how much you care about your study and the really high expectations you have of yourself ❤️

I'm not sure if it helps, but I also get super stressed about uni. So much so that I took a trimester off. And I might take longer off. I know you're not alone in the stress ❤️

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Eve7Senior Contributor15 Nov 2022, 8:36 pm AEDT

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Do you want a cuppa @outlander?
I stayed up late Sunday night finishing an assignment that was really stressing me out. You have a lot happening hon.

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