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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I always think stay until you find something better @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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ive had a couple of job offers @Eve7 thats the problem

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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You’re in a good position then to decide what’s best for you @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i dont know @Eve7 i dont know whats best for me

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Sending you understanding hugs my sister @outlander ❤❤

Yes comfort zones can be hard to overcome xx

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @Shaz51 yes ive got myself quite into a spot atm

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
Thanks @NatureLover @Eve7 I feel a tiny bit better this morning but still very lethargic. The cough and the blocked nose is abit better though and I finally was able to eat more then a piece of toast last night so I’ll take those as wins.

Was pleased to read this @outlander and I hope that it continues, with you feeling better each day.

P.S. Good luck with deciding what to do about work, both short-term and long-term...

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @NatureLover i went to the horses today but it really took alot out of me. i have been asleep for a couple of hours and have headaches and worsening aches again but it was nice to get out finally after 11 days straight at home.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good afternoon @outlander

Hoping today has been a little better for you.

Sending lots of love 💌💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hello @Snowie how are you today?
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