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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor03 Sept 2022, 5:33 pm AEST

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He’s a very lucky lizard @outlander 🦎

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SnowieSenior Contributor03 Sept 2022, 5:56 pm AEST

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Hi @outlander

I hope you got some sleep last night and you feel a little better today.

Sending lots of love to you hon 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 Sept 2022, 6:15 pm AEST

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hes a very spoilt lizard @Eve7 his breeders are very impressed and have said that ive provided one of the best enclosures hes seen for him.

i did @Snowie and ive been sleeping pretty much all day again. feels like i never have enough energy for anything. i havent even been to the horses in 2 weeks.

how are you both going?

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Eve7Senior Contributor03 Sept 2022, 6:47 pm AEST

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You’re an awesome foster mum for that spoilt lizard.

I’ve slept most of the day too @outlander after taking gs2 to a run and brekky early this morning.

How are you @Snowie ?

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 Sept 2022, 6:50 pm AEST

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i havent been out for brekky for dinner for ages @Eve7 i might try and get out in the next couple of weeks

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Eve7Senior Contributor03 Sept 2022, 6:53 pm AEST

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I’m going to brekky again tomorrow morning @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 Sept 2022, 6:55 pm AEST

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that sounds nice @Eve7

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 Sept 2022, 7:45 pm AEST

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im worried about going back to work. ive had a long break and still not ready to go back yet. ive taken another week off again to still recover but the longer i stay away the harder i feel its going to be to go back and even harder with the role im in.
i dont really know what to at this point

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Eve7Senior Contributor03 Sept 2022, 7:58 pm AEST

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I can understand your hesitance @outlander Is there someone at work you can talk to about it?

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 Sept 2022, 8:02 pm AEST

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yeah but they dont really get it @Eve7 theyve been encouraging me to leave the company. i can see where shes coming from and it has me thinking but im sort of in a comfort zone.

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