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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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ill find out @Eve7 but i dont think i can stay here. they get their wish for me moving out.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

HI @outlander I have known you for a long time on here and relate to you as one of my dearest friends.

I know life it not going well for you and that things have been worse lately.

All I can say it has been my pleasure is meeting such a strong and powerful person. I can only wish I could half as much as your strength.

You will find a way out of it. Not only do you deserve it but you have the strength to do it too.

Will always be by your side even where I am not here.

Take care my special sis. I love you and have faith in you. Goodbye

💗💞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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goodbye? @Snowie what do you mean? are you ok?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Im sorry @outlander. i didnt mean to scare you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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no need to apologise @Snowie but you didnt answer the questions.. i get worried about you and your always in my thoughts even when im not here.

do you want to talk about anything? i read your worry room post and i can relate to that emptiness and breaking points

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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No, I have already done enough damage.

You are always in my thoughts @outlander

Take care of you hon, you are so worth it even if don't always see it within yourself. The strength and courage you show everyday is uplifting for me and others.

I hope you can get some sleep tonight. Take care my special sis 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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well you havent done any damage here @Snowie

do you want to talk about something else? it feels like a long time since weve really had a chat

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Hugs @Snowie 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

@outlander 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

Please stay safe and sleep well tonight.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

@Eve7

how are you?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Hi @outlander

Sorry about last night. Was one of those nights.

I am sorry to hear about everything that is happening at the moment for you.

I wish I could wrap my arms around you and be with you irl. You are so important to me and others on here. I hope today goes a little better for you hon.

Lots of love 💜💜

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