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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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not good @Snowie hard to be here when im in this mindset

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sorry to hear that @outlander

Please know we are here for you hon if you need to talk about anything.

I'll put the kettle on for us 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie a tea would be nice.
not a good idea to talk because it just causes trouble.
these medical conditions are destroying my life and it just shows that the people around me arent who i thought. makes for a very lonley world when youve gone from so much to not even know how to get through each day.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I'm sorry that you have so many things going on at the moment @outlander

I wish you could get some answers for yourself.

Please know that you are not alone. I am here with you sis and will always be by your side in spirit.

I wish I could wrap my arms around you and tell you that everything is going to be ok.

Sending lots of love and hugs sweetie 💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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its only going to get worse @Snowie i dont have muh hope left.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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That must be hard for you hon @outlander knowing that it is going to get worse.

I hope in some way that there can still be some light in your days.

My heart goes out to you 💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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itry and look for the positives. some days are just harder then others @Snowie

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tymeModerator

Re: not coping

Sounds to tough @outlander .

I'm sorry to hear how low tonight feels for you.

Please know that you are not alone here. We are sitting with you.

If you feel the need, please reach out to crisis services:

Lifeline: 13 11 14

Suicide call back service: 1300 659 467

Samaritans: 135 247

If in immediate danger: 000

You don't need to think too far in advance tonight. I'd encourage to you take each moment by moment.

Hold on there my dear @outlander ,

tyme

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @tyme
i dont really want to talk to helplines but thank you.
things are just tough atm, hard when you realise how much things have changed and how much youve lost in only 8 months when i first got an injury. knowing theres nothing i or anyone can do makes it even worse. i just have to try and learn to live with it and not let it affect others to much so theyll at least want to be around me

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tymeModerator

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We want you around us @outlander .

I also hope you'll find a way to better yourself and not let what has happened pull you down. I know it can be so challenging, and that's why we have each other tonight on the forums.

It's totally okay if you don't feel able to speak to crisis lines - but please know they are there if you need them.

Kindest,

tyme

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