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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Apr 2022, 9:07 pm AEST

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oh dear @Sans911
has the treatment helped at all?
is the treatment making you tired or is that something else?

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SnowieSenior Contributor29 Apr 2022, 9:03 am AEST

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Wishing all goes well today @outlander

Will be thinking of you sis and here with you.

Sending lots of love your way 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 Apr 2022, 1:27 pm AEST

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thank you @Snowie

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Eve7Senior Contributor30 Apr 2022, 1:40 pm AEST

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How are you today @outlander ? I’ve been thinking of you.

Lots of love 💙💜💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 Apr 2022, 1:57 pm AEST

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the procedures went as well as they could @Eve7
feel abit unwell today and still quite tired though. i went to bed at 6pm last night and have really only been awake the last 2 or 3 hours and already tired again. they done 8 biopsies yesterday so i guess some soreness and that yuck feeling is to be expected.

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Eve7Senior Contributor30 Apr 2022, 2:05 pm AEST

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That’s a lot of biopsies @outlander I hope you get the results soon.

Are you able to take it easy for the rest of the weekend. An anaesthetic can really wipe you out hon.

Take. care 💜💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 Apr 2022, 2:30 pm AEST

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yeah i have this weekend off work @Eve7 back to work monday morning

ive had a realisation today though but its not really a good one

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 Apr 2022, 3:03 pm AEST

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im so anxious sitting around at home but i dont have much energy.
im not one to sit at home and the fact im here on my own probably doesnt help much either. makes it hard to keep my own thoughts occupied. hate having a brain that doesnt co-operate

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Eve7Senior Contributor30 Apr 2022, 3:15 pm AEST

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I can understand @outlander as I’m sitting in my private room in rehab feeling the same way. I can only walk when I’m doing physio or to the bathroom.

My head is spinning all over thinking about how much time I’ve spent in hospital these past 2 years.

Anyway, I didn’t mean to unload but I do understand you…,

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 Apr 2022, 4:56 pm AEST

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@Eve7

why are you in rehab? sorry im not up to date with everyone

is it sad that even after a few weeks of not a heap of interaction with pop, i dont really miss him.

i feel abit lost, like i have the new job and stuff like that which is great but i feel lost. really in transit. i thought having a new job would make me feel like i have a purpose but it still doesnt really.

i dont really feel like a person, i dont know how to describe it. i feel more like an empty entity wandering around.

i havent been staying at home because it doesnt feel like my home anymore though in reality it never really was, it was more pops home and i was the one staying there but its even worse now that it seems like its not my house with the person just moving themselves into the house. i have no power to move her out because its not my house and pop doesnt want her out. i think im just stressed. i dont know atm.

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