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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor28 Apr 2022, 7:19 am AEST

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Sorry to miss your post @outlander

I hope today is ok for you hon.

💙💜💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 Apr 2022, 6:07 pm AEST

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Sorry I wasn't around @outlander

I hope you are going ok.

Sending lots of love your way 💌💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Apr 2022, 6:27 pm AEST

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i have a surgery tomorrow @Snowie @Eve7 @Sans911 (and everyone following along)

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 Apr 2022, 6:28 pm AEST

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Hi my beautiful sis @outlander

I hope your surgery goes well tomorrow. I will be thinking of you hon.

Is it just a day procedure or will you be in hospital for awhile?

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BowSenior Contributor28 Apr 2022, 6:39 pm AEST

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Hey @outlander feeling a bit out of the loop sorry. Hoping it’s nothin too serious? And that it all goes ok.

💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Apr 2022, 7:29 pm AEST

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thanks @Snowie @Bow
theyve said its a day surgery but if they need to run some extra tests then ill be in overnight. Recovery should be short though only a few days.
ive had to be doing alot of preparation work today and not feeling overly great. one of the procedures early tomorrow will be a colonoscopy but i have 2 others to have done afterwards. the colonscopy has to be done first though. need some biopsies done as well while im in there. they have a few tests they want to do as well, but depending what they find tomorrow will determine whether im in over ight for more or if i can come home.

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 Apr 2022, 7:47 pm AEST

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Well I hope it goes well hon @outlander and you don't have to be in overnight. It is always better when we can sleep in our own beds.

Take care of yourself hon 💗💗

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Sans911Senior Contributor28 Apr 2022, 8:08 pm AEST

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I hope your surgery goes ok tomorrow @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Apr 2022, 8:57 pm AEST

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thanks @Snowie @Sans911

how are you both going?

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Sans911Senior Contributor28 Apr 2022, 9:00 pm AEST

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So so @outlander. One more week of my Hyperbaric treatment left thank goodness. I'm very tired, and because I'm so tired my pain levels are up as well.

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