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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor05 Apr 2022, 10:41 pm AEST

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I’ve missed you too @outlander I see that you have lots of changes in your life.

You have lots of support here my friend.

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outlanderSenior Contributor05 Apr 2022, 10:43 pm AEST

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so many changes @Eve7 its been really hard for me. the good changes even though theyre good its still been so many changes that i almost cant keep up with myself

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Eve7Senior Contributor05 Apr 2022, 10:55 pm AEST

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Even good changes can be overwhelming sometimes @outlander

@Please treat yourself with kindness

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outlanderSenior Contributor05 Apr 2022, 11:07 pm AEST

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I will try @Eve7
How are you going?

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Eve7Senior Contributor05 Apr 2022, 11:31 pm AEST

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I am ok for now @outlander I am on leave from work and doubt that I’ll be returning but need financial advice first.

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outlanderSenior Contributor06 Apr 2022, 7:26 pm AEST

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i hope you can get your finances sorted @Eve7
do you find the working environment your in now to much atm?

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Eve7Senior Contributor06 Apr 2022, 8:32 pm AEST

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Thanks @outlander I am just over it and feel that I can't go back,

it"s hard to explain on here without really spilling my thoughts everywhere.

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SnowieSenior Contributor07 Apr 2022, 9:30 am AEST

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@outlander hoping today goes ok for you hon

Sending lots of love your way 💕💕

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor08 Apr 2022, 7:00 am AEST

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@outlander Sending wishes for adjustment to all your big changes...

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outlanderSenior Contributor09 Apr 2022, 8:15 pm AEST

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Is anyone around to talk to?

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