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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Thanks @Appleblossom 💞

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Now pop has the craps at me for pulling the kids into line 😞 hes grumbling and groaning and shaking his head at me.

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I would most definitely be jumping up and down and demanding attention if I had a 19cm mass on my pancreas @outlander 😔💓 I wish you had a GP who was prepared to do whats needed. Sounds like the one you have now is only a Registrar doing time in regional practices to get experience.

I totally agree with what @Sans911 has said 👍

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Yeah hes doing some sort of training @Former-Member

It's abit (alot) scary atm. I can barely eat or drink anything, cant sleep and in constant pain. I was waiting for him to blame it on my mh but then i realised he didnt know about mh issues till after he had done the ct refferral.

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Hey @outlander just been reading through all the posts and I am sorry to hear what your scan has shown up for you. That is definitely worrying. I also can't add anymore other than what @Sans911 & @Former-Member have said. I completely agree with it all.
All I can do is support you and let you know that my fingers are crossed for you that things start happening soon.

stay strong sweets 💗

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@outlander 💜

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Thanks @Lee82 @Snowie 💜💞

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@outlander I have read back. I'm sorry you are going through so much at the moment. Glad you had support here. Much love and hugs sweetheart 💌

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Thanks @Snowie
Sending you love and hugs too 💖

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Good morning sweetie, I hope you managed to get some rest last night. I am sorry this is what you are going to read first thing this morning. When I was reading through your posts yesterday you mentioned that you have My Aged Care calling you and that it had to be with you and pop. They have this saying in the aged care industry "Nothing about me, Without me" For them to do their assessment they will definitely want to talk to pop, what you need to do when she calls is to be completely honest about where you are. You have your own health issue (they don't need to know about your MH if you don't want to tell them) you are studying and you take care of your siblings and looking after pop and you are exhausted and need the assistance. Then explain what is going on for pop and that fact he doesn't really like the idea of outside help and that he downplays things and is going to be resistive to the support. I hope this helps you get the support for pop that you both need.

Will be thinking of you today my friend. @outlander 💖

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