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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 May 2020, 5:16 pm AEST

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thank you also @Former-Member @eth for the supports too

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Sans911Senior Contributor11 May 2020, 5:16 pm AEST

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Daft doctor!! @outlander

Geez, why are good ones so hard to find hun?!

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 May 2020, 5:23 pm AEST

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I have no idea sis. I have a way of picking them thats for sure @Sans911

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Sans911Senior Contributor11 May 2020, 5:29 pm AEST

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There's good ones out there @outlander. Just not in your area perhaps.

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 May 2020, 5:31 pm AEST

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Mm maybe, this gp is only here for 12 (prob less now) but the clinic is looking for more gps esp female so hopefully some good ones will come @Sans911 i dont really wanna change now. If the bloods come back clear and he still wont send me for further testing would it be worth getting a second opinion?

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Sans911Senior Contributor11 May 2020, 5:35 pm AEST

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Mmm... Yes and no for second opinion. They may not accept CT report, and want to repeat as well as bloods. It might be hard to go through that again. But you have something that really needs attention, so yes, a second opinion would be warranted.

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 May 2020, 5:40 pm AEST

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Yeah i dont want to go through that again @Sans911 for further testing its fine but not for repeat stuff, thatd be like going backwards now.
Im trying very hard not to overreact but im worried

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Sans911Senior Contributor11 May 2020, 5:49 pm AEST

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I have think you might have to firm with your gp on Thursday if he doesn't want an MRI. Ask why, what are the ramifications of waiting for 6months for a specialist appt. Can he refer you to specialist as urgent case?

@outlander

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor11 May 2020, 5:53 pm AEST

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@outlanderWas worried about your results last night.

Cant add any more than @Sans911 @Former-Member

Sans knows what she is talking about.

JUst walking with you.

Darn pop and the blip... dryer.

Hugs

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 May 2020, 5:55 pm AEST

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Im not to sure @Sans911
Alot of specialists arent seeing people cause of covid atm hopefully itll change soon.
If he wont even do an mri i dont think he will mark it as urgent tbh.

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