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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 May 2020, 2:27 pm AEST

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thank you @Former-Member

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MaggieSenior Contributor12 May 2020, 2:31 pm AEST

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@outlander I’m confused about the worry room post. Have you given up study??

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 May 2020, 2:32 pm AEST

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Yeah @Maggie ive withdrawn from both courses

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 May 2020, 2:33 pm AEST

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both emails come through today that ive been successfully withdrawn from them

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MaggieSenior Contributor12 May 2020, 2:34 pm AEST

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Is it too much pressure @outlander, or other stuff, or both. You don’t have to answer, as I know the worry room doesn’t want replies. Sorry if I’m making it more difficult, and a support button reply is fine. 💙💙

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Unknown userMember12 May 2020, 2:42 pm AEST

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Sending you all my love and some gentle hugs my friend. 💖 @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 May 2020, 2:46 pm AEST

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@Maggie
atm my brains sayings its to much. I failed 2 assessments and im less then halfway through it and it took forever to sink it what id done wrong even with it right in front of me. it was also very simple mistakes. very disappointed in myself for it.

after yesterdays drs results its abit hard to concentrate now, I don't think ill focus till I can get some more answers

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MaggieSenior Contributor12 May 2020, 2:50 pm AEST

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You certainly have a lot on your plate @outlander . You can always return to study when you are ready, and when life is less complicated. Your health is priority. I do hope things get sorted there. You are a bright young lady, don’t lose sight of that. Sending lots of 💙💙💙💙💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 May 2020, 3:01 pm AEST

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thanks @Maggie

it doesn't really sit to well atm even though I know the decision is the right one for now. my studies mean a lot.
I know I wont be able to study until my health is sorted abit though. im very worried atm and its taking a lot of my energy

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outlanderSenior Contributor12 May 2020, 3:02 pm AEST

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thank you @Former-Member and for all the advice above too

(sorry about the delay the notifications are scattered still so only just getting them)

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