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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor31 Dec 2021, 8:35 am AEDT

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@outlander wrote:
I wouldvr been working with horses within the police and rescue forces @NatureLover i wouldve loved to do it so much

@outlander I'm so sorry you couldn't take this job working with horses 😞

I hope you might be able to do it in the future sometime 💙

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Emelia8Senior Contributor01 Jan 2022, 10:53 am AEDT

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@outlander 😔💓

Thinking of you, and commiserating about your bad start to 2022. What was said to you was very unfair and wrong. You know that though .. right? Please do not take it to heart.

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outlanderSenior Contributor01 Jan 2022, 11:05 am AEDT

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No i dont think they're wrong @Emelia8 as much as i say im capable im just not anymore. I am broken.

The owners of that horse got annoyed because i put a post up on my foot just an updated post and i was frustrated after how much ive given up but it wasnt directed at them didnt mention names or horses just mentioned the confirmed diagnosis

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor03 Jan 2022, 6:53 am AEDT

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@outlander 💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Jan 2022, 10:41 pm AEDT

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Thank you for the love and support everyone. i have unfortunatley contracted covid so im taking a few days off to just focus on recovering, im quite tired and achy and have a sore throat. hopefully it doesnt get worse and clear up in the next few days

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Eve7Senior Contributor05 Jan 2022, 1:30 am AEDT

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Get well soon @outlander

💚💙💙💜💙💜

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor07 Jan 2022, 7:23 am AEDT

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Oh no, @outlander ! How are you feeling now? How is the Covid?

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Jan 2022, 8:21 pm AEDT

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im not very well @NatureLover im feeling quite sick. i havent been out of bed for 3 days

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Eve7Senior Contributor07 Jan 2022, 8:46 pm AEDT

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I’m sorry @outlander that sounds awful. Does pop have it too?

My gd1 has it as well. I think most of us will end up with it,

💜😊🤗💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor07 Jan 2022, 8:55 pm AEDT

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no pop doesnt have it thankfully @Eve7 ive basically locked myself in my room. when i go in for showers etc, i take disinfectant and wipe over everything. i couldnt find anyone to take him or come here and i go elsewhere so im doing what i can. my rapid test gets done tomorrow to see if i still have it.

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