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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 Dec 2021, 8:41 pm AEDT

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i just cant beleive how much my lifes been turned upside down lately. just never stops @Eve7

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Eve7Senior Contributor30 Dec 2021, 9:01 pm AEDT

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😢 I am sorry @outlander I wish I could make everything better for you.

Its rsining agsin here. I was going out with friends tomorrow night but they’ve cancelled because of covid so I’ll be seeing in the New Year alone.

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 Dec 2021, 9:07 pm AEDT

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ill be working new years @Eve7 basically 2 weeks straight for me. join in here, we normally have new years virtual parties

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Eve7Senior Contributor30 Dec 2021, 9:16 pm AEDT

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I was supposed to work tomorrow but I swapped the days and worked today instead @outlander I’ll probably be on here. I’m getting the car serviced in the morning ready to drive south.

I’m glad you have work even though it’s not what you want and I worry about your foot.

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 Dec 2021, 9:21 pm AEDT

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yeah ive done lots of shift swaps too lately @Eve7 but atm cause we are so short staffed im working way more then i should.
yeah im starting to not handle it much on my foot, its been really hurting lately like even more then usual. even stopped riding and doing the horses except mine every second day

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Zoe7Senior Contributor30 Dec 2021, 9:31 pm AEDT

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I will have our usual NYE party going here tomorrow night @Eve7 ...so stay tuned

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 Dec 2021, 9:37 pm AEDT

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thanks! @Zoe7
@Eve7 we can tag you to the thread 🙂 its always a good night!

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Zoe7Senior Contributor30 Dec 2021, 9:39 pm AEDT

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I will tag @Eve7 tomorrow when I get it set up @outlander 👍

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 Dec 2021, 9:44 pm AEDT

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amazing thanks heaps @Zoe7

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Eve7Senior Contributor30 Dec 2021, 10:06 pm AEDT

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Thank you so much @outlander @Zoe7 I will look forward to joining everyone.

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