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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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BowSenior Contributor

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@outlander So sorry to hear you have CRPS. I have a friend in NZ who developed it after a pretty common sporting injury. Hoping you have the treatment and supports in place 💕

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor

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❤️ @outlander

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
i really wouldve loved the job i was offerred, if my foot was ok i wouldve jumped at the chance

@outlander what was the job you were offered that you couldn't accept?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Bow @Faith-and-Hope 💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I wouldvr been working with horses within the police and rescue forces @NatureLover i wouldve loved to do it so much

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Oh @outlander that would have been such an awesome opportunity. I would think you are majorly disappointed that your health is standing in the way for now.

💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i hate it @Eve7 i am majorly dissapointed, upset and frustrated with how things have panned out. i need the pain under control as well because right now i cant sleep, the pain make me feel sick so im struggling with even one meal a day and whn im working 10 hour shifts even if they are abit easier its getting exhausting. actually i had to turn down 2 jobs because of my foot. the other one was just as amazing and i had to turn it down. it makes me sad and angry and im really starting to hate how its all panned out. im in a job that is 'ok' but its not something i really want to stay in. its only my foot that im there.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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It seems so unfair hon and not what you need right now @outlander

I believe things happen for a reason so maybe you can concentrate on becoming well and something better awaits you.

I know that doesn’t help much now but I believe in you 💜

I hear your pain 💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i guess this is what i get for helping people @Eve7 it wasnt even my horses that did it, it was just a helping hand that i offerred. im going to try and get my foot sorted out and talk to the job i just had offerred to me and see if they will still hire me at that point in time. its hard work but its also the rewarding sort of work and something i actually like and im what im trained in

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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That sounds like a good plan @outlander

I am sure you’ll get the job you want.

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