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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i got that one @Snowie but didnt get last tag
yep! remembering days is hard when its really just the same thing day in and day out.

a walk and a jigsaw sounds good. im not a fan of jigsaw puzzles, i do like findawords or card games though.

oh dear dont you love the wait times!

do you have much on tomorrow?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I like word finds too and play card games on my phone @outlander

Going for a walk was a big deal for me, has been quite awhile since I have gone. I know I should do it more but I struggle with the motivation.

Finally got through on the phone. Couldn't get in to Oct to get D's covid vax. Thought I would get her in sooner then that.

Haven't got much planned for tomorrow. Can't really because of lockdown. Probably just do a few things around the house. D is working tomorrow night so will take her and pick her up.

Have you got much on tomorrow hon?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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it also gets boring when you go on your own @Snowie i dont like walking on my own even if i took a dog, its much nicer walking with someone else esp adults so you cant actually talk to people besides kids!

there is like 3 or 4 month waits here too. its crazy

might have a little ride tomorrow but im not sure yet. ill see how i feel in the morning after ive done all the horses. will prob be too tired to do anything by then. have to start at 7 tomorrow

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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oh my @outlander that is an early start hon.

Maybe you can have a "Nana nap" during the day. Not much else to do in lockdown!!

I like walking by myself. I am not good around people. I struggle to talk to them and struggle to continue a conversation. I would much rather my own company.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Nah not a day sleeper @Snowie once suns up and im out of bed thats me done

Well them im sure Izzy will keep you company

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Me too @outlander Once I am up I am up.

Izzy does keep me company.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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4 legged friends are good @Snowie they dont talk back and as long as you feed them then theyre usually all good!

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good morning my sweet sis @outlander

Hoping you got some sleep last night and today looks good for you.

Lots of love and hugs 💗💗💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander

How has your day been hon?

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