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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Sophia1 i dont really feel any different, yesterday was abit of a better day though. today though im really struggling with the lowness and how fatigued i am today. struggling to really even move much today.

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Sophia1Senior Contributor

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all part of healing...bruising..pain ...body healing uses up so much energy ...

You are in a better place than you were..

You have got through more days...

what day are you up to now...

focus on today...what you can do for how you are feeling..

Take care

💛

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i dont even know what day it is @Sophia1 we've been in lockdown for 2 months already and its been extended till the end of next month so every day is the same lately.
might just do some study if i can be motivated enough. im still waiting on assignments to be returned to me which is really starting to annoy me. shouldnt really take 7 weeks to mark an assignment i dont think.

what are you up to today?

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Sophia1Senior Contributor

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frustrating @outlander

Counting days was referring back to post a few pages back where I suggested each day see as an achievement.

Look back and keep record of what achieved

Focus on strength,determination used each day.

Looking forward anxiety provoking..

Is not easy...can be helpful..

I have doctors appointment soon but have to help husband moving plants garden house now..

building going on next door causing issues for new owner and her dad helping.

He is liaising with us re builders mess ups and encroachment on our land.

must go 💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hope your drs goes ok @Sophia1 and your plants get sorted. what sort of plants do you have?

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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@outlander

💜💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Eve7

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander

How are you doing today?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Snowie no notifications for your tag 🤔
my foot is really hurting today. not sure why though but i think thats why im so drained. even with the boot its just so sore. its not been 4 weeks with it. i keep loosing my days!
im still waiting on my assessments as well to be marked. hopefully might get one or 2 back soon at least. waiting on 4 to be marked. almost done with another but i kinda slowed down to try and give myself time for results to come back for improvments.

how are you? what have you been up to?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I got your notification @outlander 🤷‍♀️

Sorry to hear your foot is hurting so much today hon. Hopefully you have been able rest today.

Loosing days is very easy to do in lockdown. The only way I am remembering days is because of D working.

Gee hon, that is a long time wait for your marks sweetie. That is starting to get ridiculous. I hope you get them soon.

I went for a walk today with the dog. Actually motivated myself to go, so taking it as a win.

Also started a jigsaw today. I promised my psych yesterday that I would do both so had to do them. 🤦‍♀️

I am currently on the phone waiting to talk to someone about vaccinating the kids. Been on hold for about 20 minutes and counting...

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