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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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its been abit challanging but also ok. I had to conquer about 5 of my fears within an hour with the horses today but it was one of those situations where i just had to do it even though i was anxious. had the adrenaline pumping thats for sure! Reminds me that i can actually ride.

hows your day been?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Glad you were able to conquer them @outlander

Hopefully you can have a rest now.

My morning was ok, my afternoon not so good. Just took D to work. Have to stay awake late tonight, she doesn't finish till 11.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh thats a long night @Snowie
might have to watch BBT tonight to keep you occupied and awake
sorry your arvo wasnt so good though. hopefully tomorrow is better for you
do you want to talk about anything?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Is a long night @outlander

Might watch the footy and then bbt to get me through.

I did something this afternoon which wasn't very good.

I am just finding it hard to cope with everything. Took some prn. They have kicked in and are helping a bit.

Idk, sometimes I just want to throw it all in.

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JynxModerator

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Sending some strength your way @Snowie , hopefully tomorrow will be better

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Jynx

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i really hope tomorrow is better @Snowie im glad the prn is helping abit tonight.
do you have much on tomorrow to keep yourself amused?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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So do I hon @outlander

Haven't got much on tomorrow. Just take D to work and pick her up.

Will try and go for a walk if I can motivate myself.

Just want to give up. I know I have to keep going at least for my kids sake, but over everything.

But I guess lots are feeling this way lately

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeah i understand @Snowie it def makes it hard

hopefully you could go even for a half hour walk for some fresh air

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Will try and make myself go for a walk @outlander Don't want to but its either that or just sit and wallow

Have you got any plans for tomorrow?

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