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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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it is abit easier but also harder at the same time @Snowie
im super unmotivated here too, but need to do something. if i sit around to long then i think!

have you been up to much?

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Haven't done much today @outlander

Did some washing and nicked up the street. That is about all.

I get that if you sit around to much then you start to think. I wish I could switch my brain off today, well maybe every day!

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how many clothes do your kids wear during lockdown! youve had to do so much washing already. and that doesnt even include school or sports clothes that theyd normally have too on top of that. maybe you should chuck your kids in the washing machine at the end of the day 😂😂 @Snowie

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Your naughty and funny @outlander @Snowie 😄 ha ha ha from your Clawde

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Hi 👋 @@Tab miss you today 😍

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hello! @Clawde

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Hehe @outlander Maybe throwing them in the washing machine would help.

I went to wash some of S clothes and he had put socks rolled up in the washing basket instead of putting them in his drawer!! He really needs to start putting only dirty clothes in the wash 😁😁

Teenagers!!

Have to cook tea soon too. It might be left overs tonight, I really can't be bothered. I am finding it more and more harder to find motivation lately. Things seem to be on a downward spiral. Oh well, will see how I go.

Have you got many plans for tomorrow sis?

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yeah he gotta stop being lazy with that! @Snowie

yeah im hearing ya, im feeling the same heading downwards.
i have my pops phone speciliast in the morning and the horses in the arvo. shouldnt take me too long though to since itll be raining, i just have to chuck feed over the fences thankfully!

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I hope your Pop's appointment goes ok over the phone hon @outlander

It is hard when we cannot see our supports in person. Am meant to have my psych on Thursday and I know that will be over the phone because of all of this lockdown.

Hopefully the horses are quick for you too if it is going to be raining.

I haven't got much on tomorrow during the day. Just have parent teachers interviews for D in the afternoon. They are just via zoom b/c of lockdown. Have hers tomorrow and then S's on Thursday arvo.

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it should go ok @Snowie its really just a checkup though wont be as good as in person. better then nothing though i guess. he only has these appointments every 6 months.
i was actually suppose to be getting ready for my surgery tomorrow before i had to cancel it- with our restrictions though most surgiers have just been cancelled unless they are urgent.

oh zoom parent teacher interviews would be weird!
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