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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh yes indeed @Snowie im sure i could do a load of washing everyday. i tend to just pick a day in the week to do it though unless theres a specific item im needing/wanting

the rider is more just the sort of person where if they dont want to do something they wont but there was also quite a few people around today being a sunday so not sure. maybe she was just embarrsed her horse tripped abit. she was like nope im done for the day, thanks for the lesson and left and went out riding with other people so not sure. im not charging for lessons it was more just to help out so im not sure whatll happen from here

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sounds like you could have done nothing different at the lesson today hon @outlander You did your best and gave good advice and that is all you can do. If they are not going to listen to you then that is their bad luck. I must say you are such a sweet person for not charging lessons and giving your expertise for free.

I think my kids put things in the wash instead of putting them away 😒😒

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Yeah there's lots of soft tissue damage @Sophia1 ill see the physio tomorrow and ill take all my scans so she can have a look too. Hopefully nothing majorly wrong, i really nees it to heal now. Its been long enough. We have some rain over the next few days so itll reduce the amount i need to do too (or thats my hopes anyway😬)

I love seeing you here too, no obligation to chat everyday, just when your online and also when you feel up for it too. Thats the joys of friendships, you dony have to chat everyday to keep friendship alive.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I think all the people around played a part @Snowie wasnt really listening and was interrupted abit. Then the horae tripped and that was basically the end of it.

Yes i think my youngest sister does the same thing! Hates putting stuff away

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I wish i was normal. That i could just be like a normal person.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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@outlander

💜💙💛💙💜

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hey my sweet sis @outlander

Hoping today goes ok for you sweetie.

Lots of love and hugs 💜💜💜

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Sophia1Senior Contributor

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spot on about friendship @outlander

hope that you are a little kinder to yourself today...

body pain is literally a pain and I think that most of us are in a rush to be better right now!..

You will get there....I know only too well about the healing body...

your body needs to heal in it's own time ...

seeing the physiotherapist and talking about where next will help and give you some direction..

Sophia 1

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Snowie @Eve7 @Sophia1

have been to physio, my foot is so sore. the boot is making other parts of my feet ache as well. im going to get some extra padding for it and see if that helps as well but its fitted properly now at least so the pressure is off where it needs to be, i also need to buy a higher off the gound pair of joggers so my feet are still kinda equal for the next few weeks. im not feeling to well today, mentally and physically just not sure.
going to sit down and plan out some bill payments. i really need to try and get some of them paid off, its taking so long

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I hope that with the boot fitted better that it is easier on your foot @outlander

Sorry you are not feeling well.

Very unmotivated here.

I hope you are able to sort your bills out.

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