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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Oh that is a shame hon @outlander that you have had to cancel your surgery. Hopefully you don't have to wait too much longer for it.

PTI via zoom is a bit wierd but we have done them before like that last year too when we were in lockdown. So I guess anything is better then nothing.

Glad it is just a check up hon, hopefully everything goes ok for him.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i still have alot to pay off so i dont mind it being pushed back a few months @Snowie itll help me pay it off and some other bills quicker

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Well at least that is one good thing hon @outlander

Hopefully you can pay off what you need to soon.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i hope so too @Snowie

looks liek im going to be in my boot alot longer then i expected. the dr thinks more like 8-10 week recovery

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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oh wow @outlander

That is a long time to be in your boot for hon. I hope for your sake it isn't that long but you did do a lot of damage to it. You don't do anything by halves!!

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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no i dont :face_with_rolling_eyes::face_with_rolling_eyes: @Snowie
this is what happens when i helps someone 😞

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ClawdeSenior Contributor

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Apparently it takes 8 weeks for a bone to fix it self wether your child or an adult , so excercise is the only thing don't forget you can't drive with this my dear friend wish I could help you in real life this will be hard, but there are many things on your journey to come from it like I broke my arm and learnt music theory it was f###### hard but I leant had a scary teacher that cost a lot of dollars but was worth it looking back let me know if I can help my friend from your friend @Clawde 😍

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hopefully it is less then 8-10 weeks hon, but I guess you have to be prepared for the long haul

Will say goodnight hon. I didn't sleep well last night and was up early this morning so am going to try and head to bed soon @outlander

I hope you get some sleep tonight too, and tomorrow goes ok for you.

Love you 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i really hope it takes less time @Snowie hopefully even if its still there i might be able to walk abit more or do more things after another 2 or 3 weeks after the boots off.

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