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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor22 Aug 2021, 3:21 pm AEST

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@Snowie :heart;

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outlanderSenior Contributor22 Aug 2021, 3:42 pm AEST

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@Snowie are you still around?

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SnowieSenior Contributor22 Aug 2021, 3:54 pm AEST

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Yep still here @outlander

Whats up?

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outlanderSenior Contributor22 Aug 2021, 3:58 pm AEST

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can you just sit with me please? @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor22 Aug 2021, 3:59 pm AEST

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Of course I can sis @outlander

Anything for you.

Will put the kettle on.

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outlanderSenior Contributor22 Aug 2021, 4:02 pm AEST

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thank you, a cuppa would be lovely

hows your day going?

@Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor22 Aug 2021, 4:18 pm AEST

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Just made some cuppa's @outlander

My day is going ok. Have done some washing, taken D up the street, now just relaxing watching some tv. H is home now which is good. I am not as anxious when he is home.

How is your day going?

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outlanderSenior Contributor22 Aug 2021, 4:34 pm AEST

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sounds like youve been busy today with all the washing @Snowie
i managed a load of washing too.
the lesson i gave today didnt go so well either.

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SnowieSenior Contributor22 Aug 2021, 4:40 pm AEST

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Washing seems to be on my "to do" list everyday @outlander

Especially with 2 teenagers, they seem to create it!!

I am sorry the lesson didn't go too well hon. Did you want to talk about it?

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Sophia1Senior Contributor22 Aug 2021, 4:48 pm AEST

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Hello @outlander @Snowie @Eve7 @Bow

Stopping by to say hello....

Read that you have been on your foot.....

There will be quite a bit of internal bruising as well dear @outlander

this has to come to the surface..

other might come from results of tests..

more you rest now shorter the time for you to be able to walk for short periods....yes okay ...mum is the word..

Write a cheerful sign in colours ....capital letters...

Yes I have a sore foot....How do I know ...It hurts...

and carry it around the house where those who choose to comment will soon become bored..

I know that you have your friends on here who pop in more often and that is wonderful as you need support now..get back some of so much that you have given..

I am not an everday or chat person...as you can see ...I write stories..

Take care lovely outlander and all

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