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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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oh hon that is a long time to wait when you are in so much pain. Do you have to do much during the days or can you rest your foot hon @outlander ?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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ive been resting off it all day @Snowie but its also hard to sit still when in so much pain

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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oh hon so sorry to hear that @outlander

I wish there was something I could do to help you out hon. If I could take you to the doctors myself I would!

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie at least its not my driving foot so i can still do that. i have to actually find out when i can for time!

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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I'm sorry to hear that your foot is worse @outlander , sending you hugs

hello @Anastasia , @Eve7 , @NatureLover , @Snowie

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Hello @Shaz51 @outlander @Snowie @Eve7 all here

Gosh @outlander I just read what happened to your foot, ouch!!!! I am so sorry. I really hope you can get it looked at quickly and treatment started. Have you had an x-ray?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Shaz51

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yep i had an xray last week @anasasia i have a massive haematoma that wont go down yet but dr said come back in a week if it hasnt eased abit and she will do repeat tests and go from there

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Gosh @outlander

It's good you're following it up, I'm just so sorry you're in so much pain and seem to be holding your family to together (as always)

Hugs hun 🤗💞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Anastasia
i always have to hold it together. who knows maybe ill go to ed instead and get it over with
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