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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor04 Aug 2021, 5:13 pm AEST

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If it gets too painful ED might be the best place for you @outlander

You need to put your health, both physical and mental first.

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2021, 5:17 pm AEST

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i could wait until the friday but im so bloody busy with home schooling, and appts and everything else the only free time i have is at night which is when im normally studying. i dont want to go to the ed i want to go to the dr tomorrow but i cant

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SnowieSenior Contributor04 Aug 2021, 5:19 pm AEST

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I know it is not ideal to go to the ed but it might be your only option @outlander

Can your sister look after the younger ones so you can go tomorrow at all?

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2021, 5:21 pm AEST

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no @Snowie she is working as well and her and the youngest i dont trust together.

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SnowieSenior Contributor04 Aug 2021, 5:24 pm AEST

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Sorry hun @outlander

Seems like you are stuck in a hard place.

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2021, 5:24 pm AEST

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yep definently @Snowie makes thing hard

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor04 Aug 2021, 5:26 pm AEST

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I think go to dr tomorrow and take the lil one with you @outlander ?

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Eve7Senior Contributor04 Aug 2021, 5:40 pm AEST

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@outlander

❤❤

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2021, 7:18 pm AEST

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thanks @anasatsia i can leave her in the waiting room though while im in xrays or mris. plus they have a new puppy who cant be left home alone either so the dog cant come with us either

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor05 Aug 2021, 6:33 am AEST

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@outlander wrote:
weve been in and out of lockdown alot @NatureLover every time i book for a new hair do we get a lockdown!

Bummer, @outlander !

Sorry to read your foot is more painful...also that you can't get to the doctor till Friday. 😞

Hoping you can get through 💔 💙

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