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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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That must have been hard to stop doing @outlander ut it's good that you still do dressage and also that working with horses brings you an income.

I'll say good night now. It looks like Andrew Hoy will be winning a medal tonight at his 8th Olympics!

Take care lots of love xox

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I stopped after a bad fall @Eve7

Andrew hoy took out bronze.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Your foot sounds incredibly painful, @outlander 😞

@outlander wrote:
ive heard that about a few ages as well as 50, usually the major milestone ones like 16 18 21 25 30 40 50 60 and so on. i dont even rmember the last time i had my hair done 😬 you should do something nice for yourself though

That's true...I haven't planned anything for myself - I've always cut my own hair as I've mostly been too poor to afford hairdressers...sounds like you are in the same boat? But I will be catching up with a few different people for lunch.

I hope you can get some relief from the pain, and get your foot looked at soon. 💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good morning sis @outlander

Hoping today goes a little better for you.

How is your foot going?

Lots of love and hugs 💕💕💕💕

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander wishing you a good day hon.

Do you have to go back to the doctors about your foot today?

💕💕💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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weve been in and out of lockdown alot @NatureLover every time i book for a new hair do we get a lockdown!


its not any better sadly @Snowie its actually worse today. im in quite a fair bit of pain despite stronger prescribed pain meds

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I'm sorry to hear that your foot is worse hon @outlander

Will you have to go back to the doctors? If so hopefully you can get an appointment soon.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeah im going to go get it rechecked @Snowie i can get in on friday between 2 other appointments so hopefully i cna be seen do xrays and get it checked asap. i couldve done tomorrow but i am yet again babysitting.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander I know you babysit your sisters a lot but I wish you could put your health first hon. You need to get your foot checked out as soon as possible if it you are in that much pain.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i was going to go today but there wasnt any spots avaliable and tomorrow is after 3 oclock so babysitting then. soonest if friday by the looks of things
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