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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Aug 2021, 7:52 pm AEST

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im watching it as well @Eve7

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Eve7Senior Contributor02 Aug 2021, 8:02 pm AEST

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Such beautiful horses and such skilled riders @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Aug 2021, 8:04 pm AEST

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yes definently @Eve7 it goes till midnight in my state but im already so tired not sure ill watch it all yet

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Eve7Senior Contributor02 Aug 2021, 8:14 pm AEST

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I am really tired tonight @outlander and need to drive S1 to city hospital in the morning for X-ray and review so I won’t be up much longer.

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Aug 2021, 8:16 pm AEST

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oh dear
im probably going to need more xrays again too but looks of things
@Eve7
ive only had about an hours sleep last night and been busy all day

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Aug 2021, 8:21 pm AEST

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im having really bad bouts of anxiety and depression lately. its really hard to manage it 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor02 Aug 2021, 8:31 pm AEST

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I am so sorry you’re going through such a tough time @outlander

Is your foot still really painful? That’s not good either hun. You really deserve a break from all these health issues.

I’m here for you tonight 💙💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Aug 2021, 8:34 pm AEST

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yeah @Eve7 its still sore sore, swollen and bruised alot. i can barely walk on it have to walk on my heel, cant wear shoes, even when i sleep it has to be a certain position cause even running water or the sheet sitting on the sorest parts cause me agony

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Eve7Senior Contributor02 Aug 2021, 8:39 pm AEST

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That doesn’t sound good at all @outlander Is it a really bad sprain, fracture or maybe ligament damage?

I think you’d better go back to the Dr.

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Aug 2021, 8:41 pm AEST

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im thinking theres a chance of a fracture in there but cause of the swelling its hard to see. its definently not a sprain. i had a horse rear and land on my foot then twist so was a hard impact and then twisted as well.

so far going off what can be seen i have a heamatoma that wraps around my foot. The top of my foot and the ball of my foot being the worst. you can actually see the shoe mark from where the horse landed on my foot

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