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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Is anyone still up?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
its ok @NatureLover going to speak to them about a few implants from where i have had teeth removed to make chewing on the bad side more manageable but prob still wont chew that side cause thats where all the nerve damage is

Am just so sorry this happened to you @outlander 😞
I really hope you can get some relief from the surgery, and I'm sorry you have to put it off.

I'm glad your foot's not broken, but it sounds painful 😞

Wishing you so much good wishes 💔 💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Morning sweetheart @outlander

I wasn't receiving notifications either.

I hope today goes a bit better for you and you can get some rest and of your foot.

Lots of love and hugs sis 💕💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @NatureLover i hope so too. it wont repair the nerves but it should fix some other teeth to reduce pain otherwise

Thankfully not broken but if its still the same by wednesday i have to go back get more xrays and possibly an mri to check the smaller bones

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good morning sis @outlander

Hoping your day goes ok for you.

Rest up if you can with your foot hon.

Lots of love and hugs 💜💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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over done it abit this morning @Snowie with the horses but im at home now watching the cross country or whats left of it anyway now

how are you

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
Thankfully not broken but if its still the same by wednesday i have to go back get more xrays and possibly an mri to check the smaller bones

@outlander I hope it's a bit better by Weds too and that you don't have to go and get the MRI / Xrays.

💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Was watching the cross country too @outlander Some of those jumps are high!

I hope you can rest your foot hon.

I am going ok. Got no motivation to do anything today so might just be a day on the couch.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @NatureLover i hope so too, it doesnt bother me getting the tests, im not one to play around with possible fractures esp in the feet with so many small bones too.

my whole body is compensating atm cause of the way i need to walk. its putting so much pressure on both legs that they cramp and tire quite quickly

how are you going? have you been able to get our for some walks in nature latley?
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