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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor30 July 2021, 7:59 am AEST

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@outlander wrote:
ive decided to reshedule it anyway for a few months, i have so many expenses atm i just cant afford to get that much up that quick

That's sensible @outlander although it's a shame.

What's this about a possibly broken foot?!

I hope you can see the doctor, it sounds painful 😞

Sending 💙 and hugs

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SnowieSenior Contributor30 July 2021, 1:42 pm AEST

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Hey sis @outlander

Hoping your day is going well.

Lots of love 💕💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 July 2021, 1:45 pm AEST

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its ok @NatureLover going to speak to them about a few implants from where i have had teeth removed to make chewing on the bad side more manageable but prob still wont chew that side cause thats where all the nerve damage is

yeah possibly broken foot, but hoping not. seeing the dr today and seeig if i need xrays. my regular gp isnt there till tomorrow but no xrays places open over weekend atm. im avoing hospital. i gave it overnight just to see if it mightve just been more like a shock thing but its gotten worse overnight so best to get it checked i think

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 July 2021, 5:24 pm AEST

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oh @Snowie im sorry
i didnt recieve notification till now that you posted 🤷‍♀️

finally got to the dr though. spent 3 hours down there

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SnowieSenior Contributor30 July 2021, 5:28 pm AEST

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Thats ok hon @outlander

How did you go at the doctors?

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 July 2021, 5:37 pm AEST

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it was ok, spent quite a while there though. i seen dr, got xrays then went back. thankfully the drs i seen have xrays in there as well so i didnt have to walk far. so far theres no breaks but if it hasnt gotten much better within a few days pain she will redo xrays or posisbly send me to ed for mri so its free for me. I have a very big haematoma though. it basically extends from my toes, the top half of my foot to my ankle and then all the entire ball of my foot midway to the centre part of the arch in the foot.

@Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor30 July 2021, 5:58 pm AEST

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Glad there are no breaks @outlander but sounds really painful.

Have you got much planned for the weekend or can you rest your foot hon?

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 July 2021, 6:10 pm AEST

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not a heap planned. going to watch a few people ride tomorrow. sister wants tot ride too so looks like will be spent horsing around but not sure if ill go do mine tomorrow. cant really be bothered tbh.

what about you? can you come out of isolation now?

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SnowieSenior Contributor30 July 2021, 6:15 pm AEST

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Well make sure you get some rest hon @outlander especially with your foot. I hope it improves over the next few days.

Yes, out of isolation now. If everything goes ok then the kids should be back at school on Monday. Was able to have ect today. Not much planned for the weekend. Probably just doing then norm, washing and cleaning!!

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 July 2021, 8:39 pm AEST

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i dont seem to be recieving notifications @Snowie or not till late for some reason

its really sore tonight. have to keep it up and take stronger meds

lol sounds like a normal weekend 🤣

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