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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im sure the washing will keep you busy @Snowie when i get really bored i srub the cupboard and frdige inside and out

im feeling abit annoyed and frustrated today.
looks like lockdown might be extended for another month yet but hope not. hope they just lock down the areas that have the high case numbers
no i have to pay for it myself, they cant help me pay for it

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hehe, I am not that bored hun to scrub the cupboard or fridge @outlander

Might do the kids bedding today too, that should take up some time.

That will be hard if lockdown is extended for another month. Hopefully it is just in those areas that have high numbers.

That is a shame your family can't help you pay for the op hon. I am assuming that you are paying it off in stages.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i hope so @Snowie its getting alot harder cause im also having to home school and stuff as well and my time is alot more limited by around 3 hrs now cause people go to work around lunchtime meaning that i have kids.
ive been paying it off for the past 2 or 3 months. its costing me 2500. hopefully theres no extra hospital fees etc cause i dont think theres going to be any way i can do that then.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Gosh @outlander maybe you should start charging baby sitter fees hon.

You deserve it after all you do for your sisters.

Thats a lot of money, but I guess it really isn't for an operation.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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there is still more that i needed done but i cant afford it.
im lucky my insurance is paying for some of the fees and hospital fees so its taken around 3000 off what i wouldve had to pay

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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It is a shame when our health is controlled by money hon @outlander but I guess that is reality.

Money seems to effect us in so many different ways.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeah @Snowie i couldve went through the public system but i think theyve done enough damage as it is

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Couldn't agree more @outlander

Last time I had an op I went private. Might as well use my private health insurance, I spend enough on it!

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yes very true @Snowie
i trust the ones doing it this time so its worth paying for it i think.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I am glad you trust the people involved in your op @outlander

Hopefully that can make you a bit more comfortable about it coming up.

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