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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie im not stressed about it. im more stressed how ill pay for it even though im making regualr payments. any extra i have it goes straight onto it just doesnt seem to be getting paid fast enough. it wouldve been further ahead if all the horses expenses didnt come up all at once. had to pay nearly 700 for mine over the past few weeks and thats not including aggistment or feed.
itll be really good when i can get it out of the way some some of these one off things that have to be paid for are out fo the way too like pops hearing aids still have 5 more payments to go but thatll mean an extra 100 to use towards other things

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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and gave my sister quite abit to help with her car as well so i mightve had things paid even been able to get the extra onesprocedures i needed doing as well but cant now.
sorry to be whinging

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Hugs @outlander @Snowie

@outlander I wish we could help out. Sending to the Universe to lighten your load in every way, you deserve that hun 🙏💕

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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It's not whinging hon @outlander

What you are going through is very real and very valid.

Unfortunately money has such an effect on us, especially when we find ourselves having to pay of things.

Hi @Anastasia how are you going today?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Anastasia
i replied to your question from another thread abit further back too so its hidden abit

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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No thanks needed @outlander

Hopefully the op helps in the long run for you

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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its all dental work again @Snowie so i guess it will abit lol

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hopefully it does @outlander

Was meant to take S to orthodontist but isolation made me have to cancel the appointment. Hopefully we can get back there soon.

He needs a few teeth pulled out and braces on. Not looking forward to that bill 😒

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Thank you, I haven't seen it let me look now xox

@outlander

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