Connect with people who understand what you are going through, seek advice and surround yourself with support. We're free, anonymous, and professionally moderated 24/7.

47,612Members
1,358,869Posts
1,400,000Visitors

Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

18135 replies

11,031 - 11,040 of 18,135

1...1,103 1,104 1,105...1,814

In response to: not coping

BunniekinsSenior Contributor26 July 2021, 1:58 am AEST

Re: not coping

@Emelia8 it must have been the hospital mattresws if was lumpy...... oh well what can one do.

In response to: Re: not coping

ClawdeSenior Contributor26 July 2021, 3:18 am AEST

Re: not coping

Hi Guys @Bunniekins @Emelia8

Hope your both OK, sorry to here about your backs, not good to read anyone in pain from a simple thing hospitals should do something about.

Love to you both from your Clawde.

In response to: Re: not coping

BunniekinsSenior Contributor26 July 2021, 3:20 am AEST

Re: not coping

@Clawde Love to you too Clawde :Dxxxxx

In response to: Re: not coping

Emelia8Senior Contributor26 July 2021, 3:28 am AEST

Re: not coping

@Clawde 🌹

In response to: Re: not coping

NatureLoverSenior Contributor26 July 2021, 6:59 am AEST

Re: not coping

Sorry about your painful backs @Emelia8 and @Bunniekins 😞

@outlander I'm keeping fingers crossed that your surgery goes ahead. Glad you had a negative Covid result! And I wanted to ask, what are you studying?

In response to: Re: not coping

SnowieSenior Contributor26 July 2021, 9:52 am AEST

Re: not coping

Good morning @outlander

Wishing you a good day sweetheart.

Lots of love and hugs 💗💗

In response to: Re: not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor26 July 2021, 11:12 am AEST

Re: not coping

hope your feeling better now @Bunniekins @Emelia8 @Clawde and that youve managed some sleep

@NatureLover currently studying equine husbandry. not really that bothered if surgery doesnt go ahead atm. could use abit more time to pay it off. still have 1000 to pay off before the end of august. not sure how ill manage that tbh

sending love @Snowie @Sans911 @Anastasia @Eve7 and all who may be passing through

In response to: Re: not coping

SnowieSenior Contributor26 July 2021, 11:13 am AEST

Re: not coping

@outlander 💕💕

In response to: Re: not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor26 July 2021, 11:14 am AEST

Re: not coping

hope your abit better today @Snowie

In response to: Re: not coping

SnowieSenior Contributor26 July 2021, 11:18 am AEST

Re: not coping

Had a s**t nights sleep @outlander To much going on inside my head.

But I have had a shower, gotten dressed (out of my pjs!) and done a load of washing so trying to keep busy.

How are you today? I read about you trying to pay for your op. Can your mum help you out at all?

11,031 - 11,040 of 18,135

1...1,103 1,104 1,105...1,814

SANE Forums is published by SANE with funding from the Australian Government Department of Health.

SANE Forums does not provide crisis support.
If you need immediate assistance, please see available crisis services.

Learn more about SANE and SANE services at sane.org

Aboriginal flag

Torres Strait Islander flag

Transgender flag

SANE acknowledges the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and recognises the continuing connection to lands, waters and communities. We pay our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures; and to Elders past and present.

SANE values diversity. We are committed to providing a safe, culturally appropriate, and inclusive service for all people, regardless of their ethnicity, faith, disability, sexuality, or gender identity.

Aboriginal flag

Torres Strait Islander flag

Transgender flag

SANE acknowledges the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and recognises the continuing connection to lands, waters and communities. We pay our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures; and to Elders past and present.

SANE values diversity. We are committed to providing a safe, culturally appropriate, and inclusive service for all people, regardless of their ethnicity, faith, disability, sexuality, or gender identity.