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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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ClawdeSenior Contributor26 July 2021, 1:31 am AEST

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Hello @Bunniekins how is your night going ?

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor26 July 2021, 1:37 am AEST

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@Clawde I am doing well thanks. How are you my friend?xx

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor26 July 2021, 1:40 am AEST

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@Emelia8 Hey beautiful. How are you going this morning :)?

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Emelia8Senior Contributor26 July 2021, 1:42 am AEST

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@Bunniekins @Clawde 💗

Suffering here Pea. Cant get pain under control. 😩

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor26 July 2021, 1:43 am AEST

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@Emelia8it is you back isnt it? have you been to a physo?

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Emelia8Senior Contributor26 July 2021, 1:46 am AEST

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Yes old back injury @Bunniekins . Trouble is, most pain killers are ineffective for severe nerve pain.

Seeing physio twice a week. Traction etc. And back brace to try to stabilise dodgy back.

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor26 July 2021, 1:50 am AEST

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@Emelia8 Well you are doing everything right. I hope it gets better soo. Nothing worse than a bad back 😞

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Emelia8Senior Contributor26 July 2021, 1:53 am AEST

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Thanks @Bunniekins

It needs to start improving soon Pea. Its been a month now, with no improvement. About ready to give up.

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor26 July 2021, 1:55 am AEST

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@Emelia8 I will tell you a secret ever since I have left hospital I have had a bad back too ..... I think it is slowly gettig better but it terrible.

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Emelia8Senior Contributor26 July 2021, 1:57 am AEST

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Sorry to hear @Bunniekins 😯 I feel for you. 🐰💖

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